I have been fortunate enough to travel to China three times, and each was different but exciting and educational. The first time I traveled with a Toronto-based organization, ALPHA (The Association for the Learning and Preserving of the History of Asia in the Second World War). We learned about Chinese ‘comfort women,’ the horrendous ‘rape of Nanking,’ and other atrocities committed by the Japanese against the Chinese during World War Two. The second time was probably the most popular river cruise available in China, on the Yangtze River. The last, and most recent, was a visit to Shanghai with its huge population, bustling nightlife, abundance of stores, and incredibly fast trains.

Because China is so very different, it is useful, if not essential, to come prepared and armed with some valuable tips. These now follow, in no particular order.

First, always do your research prior to going to China. What is it what you want to see, how much do you want to pay, how long do you want to be in China, etc. All these questions, and others, can be answered by spending a few hours in front of your computer and/or going to a travel agency. Related to this suggestion, I would also strongly recommend that you take advantage of add-on’s that are offered. This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so maximize it by selecting what are the best additional tours that are offered. And I again strongly recommend that you ‘add those ‘add’on’s prior to departure – much easier and convenient that way rather than trying to add them in China and having to deplete your cash supply.

Second, I would suggest that you always bargain with merchants in China. That is particularly the case in markets. There, be prepared to walk away from any proposed ‘deal.’ Guaranteed that the merchant will come down and come after you. Never accept the opening price. Make your first offer VERY low and then bargain from there. In major department stores, this strategy probably will not work.  

While in China, because it is so very different coupled with the fact that the language is a barrier, I would suggest as a third tip to always stay with the group. Not only will you not get lost – something easily done in China – but you will not only increase your safety and comfort, but also your enjoyment. 

Speaking of language, that brings me to my fourth tip. Try to master a few basic terms. The Chinese will love the fact that you are at least making an effort. Here are some of the most basic words and phrases that will come in handy. (in simplified Mandarin):  please (qing), thank you (xie xie), how much is it? (ta duo shaoqian), where is? (zai na li), and hello/good day (ni hao). Trust me, you will get a great deal of mileage out of these few simple phrases, even if your pronunciation leave something to be desired.

My final tip would be to set yourself up for success. How can you do that? One way is by going to China with the proper attitude. Do not expect things to be like ‘back home.’ They’re going to be VERY different. Accept that and be flexible and learn and enjoy in the process. Be adventuresome – eat native and do not go into Starbucks or McDonalds. You can also accomplish that by doing the research prior to departure mentioned above. Further, be curious – ask lots of questions, especially, obviously, of people who have been to China.

You’re going to have a wonderful time in China. After all, you picked it – and it’s got a lot going for it! Follow these five tips above and that wonderful time will be transformed into a phenomenal time, truly a once-in-a-lifetime experience.